DJ Website fix (putting soundcloud on wordpress)

My name is DJ Queen B, and I am a female DJ here in NYC. I had a freelancer project previously to build my website. www.djqueenb.com. The designer did not finish the site and asked for more money for something that was his mistake =/ I just want it done..but I am really on a budget here too. I have a few issues with it: #1) I asked for there to be a media player where people can download my mixes. He attempted but he never got it to work with my music. I just want to REMOVE the media player (it shows up on every page) and instead I want to use my SOUNDCLOUD player. For some reason the soundcloud wordpress embed isn't working when I tried and I don't know why. Here is my soundcloud link ([login to view URL]) I want to embed a player and put it on my site in place of the one that's there now. #2) On wordpress they let you make new pages. But my new pages wont show up on my site. I don't want them on the top. I want them to show up on the bottom. I just don't know how to use wordpress at all. #3) (only if possible) Using flash, is there any way to make a colorful rainbow "music bar" thing to stretch out right ontop of the black border...right under the djqueenb logo? Nothing huge..just like the little bars that play in the music player for example...only bigger..and in rainbow. I think that would be cool. .....That's all. I've been told this could be done on my own but I just don't know how to use wordpress so I just want it done. Pleaseeeee!!!!!! And please don't rip me off :( It's not cool. *if you do a good job I would be more than happy to recommend you to other friends in the music industry trying to do their sites aswell*