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My former husband is destroying my reputation, he has already taken one child and turned her into a mess he was not in their lives for 13 yrs he returned 3 years ago and through slander he rewarded her by renting her a luxury apartment moving her in the her heroin addict boyfriend ar 17 now my son 16 and I are incredibly close always have been he is on the spectrum he got caught smoking pot Wednesday so I punished him by grounding my son became very angry and he said I’m going to dads I said if you want use drugs that’s not allowed here then go well he biked there my x was supposed to talk him down and bring him home the next day well he now my son x and daughter are going around telling friends and he’s instructed my son who just a week ago was terrified by his dad and wouldn’t even speak to him he was very physically and emotionally abusive to all of us and he is an addict who has a lucrative career i suffer from psvt arrhythmia , mitral dysplasia, valve prolapse, mitral regurgitation severe high blood pressure and anxiety I’ve had several tia’s in the 3 years he’s been terrorizing me via brainwashing then keeping my daughter covered in money , alcohol, pot and other vices to do his bidding my son and she can barely stand one another my daughter is also participating in the brainwashing since my son friends have seen him on Instagram up all night drinking smoking pot dad sister and boyfriend duffel bags of cash because I had 2 tias on Thursday his best friends who can’t believe he’s there that I’m unstable manic not really I’ll that the meds I take are really drugs and that he isn’t going to be coming home I wasn’t a mom , I’ve never worked until this year I stay home , he’s had the best therapists , drs and he is covered in love and affection I rarely go out n his sister and dad are telling their friends his friends and even my mom and I that I’m not sick it’s addiction I was never a mom I never grew up I don’t behave like an adult and that I’m over the edge out of control mentally ill he’s never paid a single dime of their support my family does everything and they have medical proof these conditions are real whenb my daughter left at 16 for my making rules this is the same exact tactic he used cardiologist reports neurologist reports psychiatrist letters saying I’m fit I even took drug they were negative he’s using my sons rebellion to gain control of this child neighbors had issued a letter kids behavior as of late my son was caught neighbors had photos of him hanging out the front window with bong they called the police to do an online course got drug and alcohol intervention bought him a home gym came to pick up clothes Friday my mom text some recommendations for my safety I am at a high risk for a very serious stroke sent a group text my xreplied he’d begin looking for a treatment program then I started to hear what’s been said about me to my sonwhat my daughter has been telling friends and what my x is telling my son and then last night online school starts tomorrow and making sure my x including the support teacher isn’t going to be with him and he’s going to need help schedule and routine I asked when Vince home told for the weekend I’m manic and crazy was the response! he told the kids and now they told their friends my friends that I have a pill problem bipolar manic and unstable that I never mothered I’m not able to be a grown up due to my issues I have custody and always have my mom told them no more they can’t me say I’m those things destroying my relationship with my son who hated and was afraid of him his pediatrician and guidance counselor that can verify that my son being there stunning something isn’t right he’s not allowed to see me , or any of his friends I have lose one child already she was so close to 18 we think he’s afraid cease and desist letter for both are getting my son to sabotage our relationship daughter telling her brother lies To destroy my relationship