Amazing! I swear, you're my other half in book writing. I love doing the actual writing, but to actually get good and informative writing (in nonfiction books, articles and comedy gigs I do) I have to outline the good stuff. I can't believe you're the exact opposite of me (didn't think one actually existed), but let me tell you, I have just wasted my last bid on you here. I was a HUGE self-help enthusiast, for a few months (I have also read some material on NLP & PUA, those three tend to go together at times).
Either way, I'm 100% sure I can deliver an informative and extremely helpful book with splurges of humor here and there, I may not be as cheap as an Indian author that'll "do good werk, 500 page, 5 doller", but I believe I'm one of the best.
Please don't be a stranger though. I've really put myself out there since this sounds like an interesting project (male escort!?), if you're not interested, please PM me about it so you could tell me exactly why you're wrong.
And lastly, I can send you about a bazillion samples (or just one, your call) and things I did. In just about ANY genre (comedy writing being my profession as of this moment, but I have a lot of articles and even one self-published novella).