Conceptual Design Index Page

we are looking to redesign the index page of our website. The url is funfantasydates.com. The reason for the change is simple- we really do not like the page although the current functionality must remain, plus another component that deals with a membership driven identification of recipients of charitable donations. Our problem with the current page is that it is too heavy- it needs more energy- more humour - something is lacking. This job is for a good designer to redesign the index page- basically we think the design of inner pages can remain unless the new design is so compelling as to warrant change. However, as the website is to be ad-driven with extensive use of banners, a comprehensive overhaul may be considered. This largely depends on index page design. This first phase is for a conceptual design of the index page only.